When it comes to parenting, the first thing you need to know is parenting styles. Diana Baumrind gives a head-on description of the three styles.
The first is permissive. Permissive parents are more open-minded with their child's behaviors and desires. They set some rules and give some demands, but don't strictly enforce everything. Children with permissive parents often don't understand why they can't always have things their way.
The second is authoritarian. Authoritarian parents do their best to control the attitude and behaviors of their child. They try to keep their child in place and give them responsibilities. These parents mean well and raise their children to respect authority figures and follow instructions, but the children often have trouble thinking for themselves.
Last but not least is the authoritative parents. Authoritative parents are the best of both worlds with other two styles. These parents enforce their rules and give consequences, but explain why for things too. These children are likely to question the rules and authority figures, but they also have opinions and are ready to express them.
I relate to this one the most because both of my parents were authoritative. They had expectations of me, but they still gave me the freedom I wanted without it being too much.
When I was growing up and still today, my parents support me in everything I do. I always felt very loved by my parents. However, they did set rules for me, and if I didn't follow them, there were consequences and I knew why.
Knowing all of these styles and how they impact children will really influence my decisions as a teacher and also as a mom. I want my students and children to feel loved by me, but I also want them to know who's in charge. I don't want them to be scared of me. I want to teach my students and children how to think for themselves and to respect adults. I want them to know when they break the rules there will be consequences and why.